Spiritual Companionship is a mutually enriching relationship where one person accompanies another on their spiritual journey, offering a sacred space for growth, reflection, and discernment. Rooted in deep and rich Christian traditions—such as Franciscan, Jesuit, Benedictine, and Quaker practices—spiritual Companionship is not about providing advice or ministry, but guiding the individual to notice and respond to God's activity in their life. It is a process of walking alongside someone, helping them to grow into the fullness of the stature of Christ, focusing on God's plan for their life. This one-on-one relationship involves attentive listening, prayer, vulnerability, and mutual learning, as the Spiritual Companion offers a holding space for the person’s emotions, struggles, and challenges. The Holy Spirit is central to the process, guiding both Companion and directee toward deeper understanding and transformation. Spiritual companionship is a holistic, hospitable journey, defined by confidentiality, support, and challenge, where both parties commit to dedicated growth and the continuous unfolding of God’s presence. It is not a spiritual "gym," but a lifestyle that encourages true transformation and a deeper connection with God.
The details of any relationship with a Spiritual Companion are a matter of negotiation, such as the frequency and length of meetings. Any Christian can benefit from having a Spiritual Companion, as spiritual wellbeing lies at the heart of all else. In our diocese, we are fortunate to have a number of Spiritual Companions willing to volunteer their services. Those wanting further information should contact the Bishop of Manchester’s Chaplain in the first instance at BishopsChaplain@manchester.anglican.org