As a clergy spouse, you play an essential role in the life of the church. Not only do you support your partner in ministry, but you also contribute to the church community in unique and valuable ways. We recognise the challenges and joys that come with this calling, and are here to support you on your journey.
Clergy SPICE
We are committed to fostering a sense of community and mutual support among clergy spouses. Through Clergy SPICE, you will be able to attend gatherings and social events so you can connect with others who understand the unique aspects of this vocation. Whether you’re seeking friendship, encouragement, or simply someone who gets it, we are here to walk alongside you.
Who are the Clergy SPICE?
Clergy SPICE is a support group for anyone who shares their life with their Revd other half. Sometimes, we don’t know whether to laugh, cry, rejoice, share, or despair… that’s where Clergy SPICE comes in! The purpose of the group is to provide a safe space for clergy spouses to speak to others in the same position, and find mutual support and friendship.
What do we do?
We plan bi-monthly events and always welcome fresh input or ideas, however new you are to your vicarage. These gatherings generally involve chatting, food and drink, and you can come to one event or to all of them – it’s completely up to you!
Please contact SPICE co-ordinator, Jess Leaf (20 years a SPICE in the Diocese) 07944 258243 (WhatsApp), or email at jrfleaf@me.com to find out more.
Support
We are dedicated to supporting your wellbeing and ensuring that practical, emotional, and spiritual support is available to all. If you need help or advice, please don’t hesitate to get in touch with your Archdeacon or Area Dean. Additionally, clergy spouses and children have open access to the Inter-Diocesan Counselling Service, a confidential service that you can access directly.
Bishops and archdeacons are available to provide or arrange pastoral support for either or both spouses or civil partners. However, if preferred, confidential provision is also available without the involvement of senior clergy.
Two Bishop’s Visitors appointed by the Bishop of Manchester are available for practical support to the spouse or civil partner of a member of clergy. This is entirely confidential, and the Bishop’s Visitors also have knowledge of a range of charities which can help financially. Any clergy spouse or partner is welcome to contact a Bishop’s Visitor directly:
Penny Applegate: penny.a.applegate@googlemail.com
John Sharp: mdbishopsvisitor@gmail.com
Support and information in circumstances of relationship breakdown can also be found at Broken Rites, an independent, international group offering support and information to separated and divorced spouses and partners of clergy.
Useful Links
Clergy Support Trust is a charity focused on the well-being of Anglican clergy and their families, offering support to clergy and people training for Anglican ministry (ordinands), along with their families, spouses or partners, and widows and widowers of clergy.
St Luke's for Clergy Wellbeing
St Luke's is a charity which offers psychological wellbeing and mental health support to clergy, their spouses and children up to age 18 in education.